Bondage is hot for all kinds of reasons. For many people, it's something new, it's a chance to play around with ideas of power and control, and it can help you tap into things you never knew might turn you on.
Here are some starter bondage positions if you'd like to give it a try. (Caveat: Be SAFE! In BDSM, all discomfort should be the kind you want. Talk all this stuff over first, have a safe word, research equipment beforehand, and remember consent.)
For clarity and your enjoyment, positions are written as though you're the one doing the tying up. But you can easily switch them up should you feel like handing over the handcuffs...
1 Heels Over Head
Tie your partner's legs to the headboard (if you have one) or bind their legs to their wrists so they are in a sort of ankles-by-head missionary. Give them a little slap on the ass and say you'll be back in a minute or two, allowing them time to experience the sexiness of being helpless to your whims. When you return, you can choose to be gentle and service them with your mouth, hands, or whatever you've got going on between your legs. Or you can be a little more torturey, spanking them a little, or almost but not quite touching them how they'd like, until they can't take it anymore.
2
If the dungeon look doesn't exactly match your bedroom decor, try a set of restraints that fits under your mattress. Look for a set with straps and soft cuffs that let you tie your loved one spread-eagled to the bed. Try face-up so they can watch you have your way with them, or facedown so you can toy with their bum and give them a reach-around at the same time. Switch it up with vibrators, or ... actual switches, if you've agreed to that.
3
Your partner has been identified as a suspect and will require a thorough strip search. Make them take off their clothes and cuff their hands behind their back. Tell them you'll need to blindfold them — it's just standard procedure. Give them an extremelythorough body search, using your hands and mouth. If they squirm or get too turned on, point this out, and you can give them a little swipe with a flogger (less hardcore than a full-on whip or cane). Amp their punishment up or down, according to how you both are responding to it.
4 The Not-So-Sweet Seat
Chair bondage is generally a "damsel in distress" kind of thing, but tweak it by putting the guy in the chair. A straight-backed chair is best so you can tie his legs to the chair legs and his arms to the arms (if the chair doesn't have arms, you can secure his wrists together behind the chair, or even to his own thighs.). Thoroughly rev him up, give him a slow strip tease, providing him plenty of time to want you even more. Tease him by stroking yourself in front of him until you're about to orgasm and he can scarcely take it. When he begins to beg, that's when he can have you. Actually, let him beg, then make him wait a tiny bit longer, then climb aboard and have your way with him.
5
Have your partner get on their knees with their shoulders touching the mattress and their arms stretching back straight along the mattress between the legs. Push their ankles apart and tie their wrists together. Take advantage of their vulnerable position by trying things you've talked about before (see above: consent) but haven't actually tried. If, for example, it's your guy and butt stuff, try use a well-lubed hand to stroke his penis, do a little ball handling, and rub his inner thighs 'til he's all relaxed and open. Start rubbing along the crack of his bum, dripping lube into it and grazing the actual hole region. Then slide a finger in slowly and gently. Depending how he reacts, you can go to a full-on finger fuck while continuing to stroke.
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